My life has always consisted of serious flirting and flirting related issues.  It doesn't matter if its part of my day to day life, my work life, my spiritual life or any virtual life I have going on.  I love to flirt and love its crazy adventures.  However, there are some issues that do come up when one is as flirtatious as I tend to be.

 

   ~    People often misunderstand my flirting as I am easy.  My guy could tell you that easy is something that I am not.  Gigglez.  Don't get me wrong.  I do love sex and physical contact and relating and having fun.  But I really only enjoy it when its with someone I am deeply attached to.  There has to be some sort of feeling there.

   ~   People think that there is a chance or something there that isn't.  Hey, just flirting and having fun here.  Not intending on leading you on into something serious like.  O.o  If I want something more, I would tell you straight up.  Otherwise, I am just enjoying your company, being a lil bad, but not crossing the line.  You know that line and speaking of it....

   ~   Your significant other suddenly thinks you are playin, cheatin or having an affair when all you were doing was being yourself, having fun and doing nothing more then talk.  Heck I have been on both ends of this.  I am highly jealous so when my S/O does this, I have a coniption and start thinking he has stuff going on that he shouldn't.  By the same token, it is possible he would think the same of me.  It creates a very sticky situation. 

 

The only thing I have found to combat some of this, is when I get into one of my flirtatious modes, to give out warnings and tell people upfront....hey flirtin here, hope you don't mind, but I really don't want anything.  I just wanna drive you crazy, make you dream of err things and laugh, giggle and have fun.

 

I love who I am.  I love to flirt and its not gonna stop.  Winkz!  But flirtin on the up and up ~ my baby has me all to his self, that is, if he wants me.  (I can be a challenge...lol...so sometimes I don't think he really wants any of that ~ lmao!!)

 

Here is to flirtin fun and good times with you.  See ya somewhere in Kaneva, Secondlife, World of Warcraft, City of Hereos, City of Villians or Guild Wars!  Wanna play...come on!