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Holding On Waiting < Back  
Jul-3-07 08:06 AM  davidcson   tags: 
When asked to give space and time in a relationship just what does that mean? I think that means leave that person alone, let them think, and deal with what they going through, OK, fair enough. However, just a few questions, how much space and time is needed to think and focus on what your heart tells you? What of the person that is being asked to wait? What does he or she do in the mean time? Wait patiently and continue to work, eat, and lay in bed wondering what is going on, how the other person is doing, and what the other person is doing. How do you turn off an intense emotional bond to somebody or do you? Do you remove and forget them from the depths of your heart and soul? Do you leave them? you don't want to leave them as they have so enriched your life and lifted your spirit up and out of darkness. Do you move on with your life in this lone world waiting for a call that may never come, letting go, hoping the butterfly comes back. What do y'all think?
 
David
 
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Comment from: Spiritress Jul-5-07 01:37 PM    
Nicely written. Now for my thoughts When a person needs some time or space it sometimes means they just don't know how to leave the relationship. Sometimes it means they feel overwhelmed and confused and they just need some breathing room to work through thier confusion. So all one can do is say ok if you have any questions or if there is anything I can do call me. then he or she goes and finds things that might interest them that they have never done before. For example if they have always wanted to take a watercolor class or photography etc they go and do that. Find things that keep you busy and do some focus on your own thoughts and perhaps reevaluate your own life. Make sure you are truly happy with that person and ask yourself why you are. Just keep living life and look for things that make you smile. If in time that person realizes they miss you and know what they want they will come back on thier own. If after a certain amount of time goes by and you have heard nothing keep living your life and eventually you will move on naturally with outforcing yourself to do so. If a new person come around well you could give the previous person a call and give them a heads that you are checking in before you move on. Hope that helps. Sorry for the long winded thought. LOL



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